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Saturday, July 15, 2006

The man who taught me how to smile again….

Well, we’ve been together here six months today!

Six months- Half a year, goddess it so dose’nt seem that long, and in many ways it seems longer!
I feel like there was never a point when he was’nt here, this last six months have made the rest of the years melt away and start over in a way than I couldnt explain with a million words and years at my disposal.

He is so much more amazing that I could ever hope to be able to put into words……. let me count just some (a few of many, hell, just read my familly’s posts) of the ways he has affected the lives of me and those around us…….

1- He loves me, and he tells me, and I can tell him, without fear of ridicule, and with no doubt that either of us means it.
2- I love him, in ways I didnt think were possible to feel, life & soul bonded is the only way I can describe it.
3- He has helped my entire familly communicate more than any of us ever have before, and we have learnt things about ourselves that we never would have known without him being here. And he loves them all, completely and without exception.
4- He is the best friend I never thought I would have.
5- He is patient, generous and kind, loving, tender and understanding, amazingly soulfull, intelligent and trail-blazing, everything he tries he masters on a scale that to most of us is stunning, even though he rarely sees it that way… Things go through that bald head that Stephen Hawking, Einstein, Bill Gates and Da.Vinci would be amazed by. And he never sees it.(Im working on changing that, its the only thing about him I would ever change).
6- I love him, like I have never loved before, like I didnt think it was possible to love this way.
7- He knows what I mean when I say “ditto”.
8- He knows what I mean when I say random words that are’nt what they were supposed to be, for instance, I often have a momentary synaptic misfire when the name of an object will vanish from my head, and instead of saying “I’m going to get my glass” Ill say “I’m going to get my.. thing”…… he always sees the humour and knows what I mean, and smiling, he never ridicules me. (And godess knows there are many things he could over lol) ;)

What more can I say, I love him, and Im very very lucky,… I got to fall in love with my best friend, he’s been my best friend for nine years, and even now, after being with me for half a year, being madly in love with eachother, we are still best friends.

I love you Noah. :) :o )




posted by Barry at 5:06 am  


  1. With all that’s wrong with the world today, it’s good to know that love still exists - and in great quantities too! Happy SixMonthaVersarry guys!

    Comment by Paul — July 15, 2006 @ 1:46 pm

  2. {{{{{{{{{{{{{ never, ever, ever letting go }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

    Comment by Noah — July 15, 2006 @ 2:16 pm

  3. Hey there Barry,
    We’re so happy that you & Noah have found each other!!!
    God knows you both deserve it…
    Words cannot express the Love and Kindness that you and your family have
    shown our beloved Noah.
    We’re truly thankful
    Happy Anniversary to you both!!! :)

    Comment by Me — July 15, 2006 @ 6:58 pm

  4. Happy six month anniversary Barry and Noah. great to hear you are both so happy, you both deserve all the love and happiness you getxxxx
    Love Elaine. Pat and Liamxxxx

    Comment by Elaine — July 16, 2006 @ 11:34 am

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